Supported Loving blogs
The Supported Loving campaign is capturing interest from many different people. Read what people have been saying in their blogs.
- Hero Worship - An audience with Dave Hingsburger
Perhaps it’s good to have someone to look up to, whose qualities are a source of aspiration and inspiration, someone to follow, learn from and be motivated by.
- What it means to be transgender
It means I get the chance to live my life, I have been waiting for so many years and I am very proud to be living my new life as Charlotte. My life is about to change, and I almost can’t wait because it means everything to me and what I have been fighting for will happen.
- Supported loving, how can families help?
Families have bad press on this topic with some professionals assuming we don’t want our sons and daughters to have ordinary relationships - 15 August 2018
- Supported Loving Network Meeting
Notes from the latest Supported Loving network meeting - 2 July 2018
- RESPOND – My Life, My Marriage Project
People with learning disabilities can be forced into marriage - 4 June 2018
- Love is ...
The Brelade Players have written a poem exploring love and acceptance - 21 May 2018
- Is love still a taboo subject?
Mark is not getting the right support to meet the girl of his dreams, read about his experiences - 22 March 2018
- Opening a can of worms?
LDT publishes Dr Claire Bates’ blog challenging ingrained cultural barriers to love and sex - 12 February 2018.
- All you need is love
Sam Sly, Regulation, Health, and Social Care Consultant reflects on peoples right to love and citizenship - 3 January 2018.
- Love is not a luxury
Dr Erin Ferguson's research explores how people with learning disabilities can access the messy, fun, exciting and frightening world where love is not a luxury - 4 December 2017
- Relationships are for everyone
Dr Claire Bates discusses online dating for people with learning disabilties in her blog published by LDT - 31 October 2017
- Third Supported Loving network notes
Read notes from the third network meeting which took place on 5 October 2017. They contain useful links to those in the Supported Loving network - 26 October 2017
- Easy complacency or hard commitment?
Sue Sharples challenges CQC and support providers not to ignore support for sex and relationships - 23 October 17
Starting the conversation
Gillian Leno, full-time intimate relationships teacher, writes on the lasting impact of collaborative work - 12 October 17
- Love is real, real is love
Christian Buchan, Choice Support Homes Manager, has been inspired by #Supported Loving. Read what he has achieved for people he supports - 3 October 17
- Why accessible information is important for healthy relationships
CHANGE is a leading human rights organisation led by disabled people. Their research shows that good information is needed by everyone - 30 August 17
- I haven't always been in a happy relationship...
Vicky Buckingham shares her experience of finding the right partner and needing the right support - 16 August 17
- Second Supported Loving network meeting
Read the notes from the second network meeting which contains useful links to those in the Supported Loving network -17 July 17
- Pride in LGBT relationships
Dr Claire Bates writes on celebrating and supporting LGBT pride in her Learning Disability Today blog - 29 June 17
- Sex and relationships
Mother of a 21 year old daughter with a learning disabilty, Liz Wilson from Dimensions, would love to start the conversation about sex and relationships with families. - 21 June 17
- The importance of supported loving
After Sue Turner from NDTi attended her first Supported Loving event what struck her was "...people wanted a safe space to talk about relationships and sex – not to be kept safe from them." - 15 June 2017
- Finding a sex worker
A woman who needs support asks if she could be supported to find a sex worker. What are the safety implications for everyone involved? - 5 June 2017
- Leanne and David
Leanne and David explain what good relationship support means to them - 15 May 2017
- A sister’s point of view on the learning disability dating scene
Helena, a sister, explains why she is founder of Happily a friendship and dating agency - 2 May 2017
- Research unpacked
Dr Claire Bates shares more of her PhD research findings in her latest blog for Learning Disability Today - April 2017
- Katie...finding love through a dating agency
Katie describes how finding love has changed her life. "Since joining Mates 'n' Dates, my depression has improved I do not feel alone...Above all I feel loved." - 18 April 2017
- Mates 'n' Dates
Maxine Hemmings, Co-ordinator at the dating agency, Mates 'n' Dates: "many people with learning disabilities want friends and maybe a partner too..." - 10 April 2017
- Sex, love and citizenship
Dr Simon Duffy from the Centre for Welfare Reform has expanded his six keys to citizenship to include love. "Without love we are nothing" - 21 March 2017
- Daniel and Angela - building a relationship
Sue Deeley from Gettalife tells Daniel and Angela's story showing that good support around relationships, sexuality and intimacy becomes even more important for people with more complex needs - 13 March 2017
- Josephine and Jack
Clare Morgan from the Josephine and Jack Project writes about a unique approach to supporting people with learning disabilities to talk about relationships and sex - 2 March 2017.
- First Supported Loving network meeting
Read the notes including useful links to contributors of the first Supported Loving network meeting - 15 February 2017.
- Supported loving: Helping people with learning disabilities to find love and maintain it.
Dr Claire Bates writes a guest blog in Learning Disability Today - 7 February 2017
- What is Supported Loving?
Dr Claire Bates writes about the launch of Supported Loving - 24 January 2017
The views expressed in the Supported Loving blogs are not necessarily those of Choice Support.
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